Why Spirit Babies Choose Portal People

If you’ve ever felt like your energy changes the room… or turns heads or like strangers open up to you in seconds… like your presence shakes something loose in others they didn’t even know was stuck—this message is for you.

Because spirit babies don’t choose just anyone. They choose whomever is right for their energy. It’s not exclusive- it’s alignment.

Spirit babies choose portal people.

They choose the ones who are potent, passionate, multidimensional.

The ones who see through illusions and remember why they came.

The ones who can crack open hearts, shift mindsets, and stir up something ancient and real just by being.

If you’re here, reading this, it’s likely because you’re one of them.

So many of the women I’ve worked with—mamas trying to conceive, intuitives, witches, healers, creatives, lovers of life—have one thing in common: their spirit babies feel big. Their babies bring magic, messages, medicine.

And the women carrying those babies?

Portal people.

They’re not just nurturing life—they’re holding open entire realities.

They’re bridging past lives and future timelines.

They’re the ones whose babies chose them because of their depth, their wild heart, their power.

And maybe, like me, your spirit babies chose you because they saw the whole picture.

They saw your soul.

They saw what you could hold.

And they knew—they just knew—you were the one.

What Is a Portal Person?

A portal person is someone whose energy shifts people.

You don’t just leave impressions—you leave imprints.

You touch something deeper. Even in small interactions, your presence can stir something awake in others.

You might be at the park and chat with a stranger for five minutes, and by the time you part ways, they’re crying, reflecting, inspired—or visibly shaken. And you’re left wondering, what just happened?

If you’re a portal of a person, you know exactly what I mean.

You’ve probably also internalized this energy as too much.

You might have blamed yourself for how people react to you—falling in love too quickly, copying you, seeking you out in intense waves, and then disappearing.

You might have attracted people who just wanted to feel something through you, and left once they got their thrill. Portal people are often emotional catalysts for others, which can feel devastating when it isn’t mutual or sustainable.

Why Boundaries Matter for Portal People

This is where energetic discernment becomes sacred.

Your presence is life-changing.

That’s not a metaphor—it’s a frequency.

So you must ask yourself:

• Do I feel safe offering this part of myself?

• Does this person have the capacity to meet me in this space?

• Do I want to offer this right now, or am I defaulting into it?

Don’t be a portal for everyone.

Offer your medicine in alignment—not obligation.

Because while your words may pour out perfectly, like keys in a lock, sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is withhold until it’s safe, mutual, and honored.

Why People React So Intensely to You

Let’s talk about cognitive dissonance.

This happens when someone is presented with new information or a new reality that directly challenges their existing beliefs. The brain gets confused—stressed even. People might get defensive, lash out, retreat, or shut down.

As a portal person, just by existing, you can cause cognitive dissonance in others.

You become the embodiment of possibility, of healing, of “more”—and that can terrify someone who’s only ever known contraction and survival.

So no, you’re not “too much.”

You’re not overwhelming.

You’re just waking people up—and not everyone is ready.

The Dating Struggle for Portal People

For my single lover girls…

Many portal women feel used while dating.

Not intentionally—but energetically.

She’s the one men come to when they want to feel something.

She’s the one they write songs about, call “ethereal,” tell their therapist they can’t stop thinking about.

But few stick around.

Why?

Because she’s a mirror.

She reflects their unhealed wounds, their deepest desires, their unrealized potential.

And most people aren’t prepared to meet themselves that honestly.

So if that’s been your pattern—know that it’s not a curse.

It’s a sign of your power.

The solution?

Hold your frequency.

Share it with discernment.

Know that your magic deserves to be met, cherished, and returned tenfold.

How Portal People Find Belonging

Sometimes we wonder—are we too intense to belong?

Are we too deep, too electric, too emotionally literate?

I don’t think so.

But I do think we need each other.

We need other portal people.

We need communities of women who aren’t afraid of our light.

We need friends who’ve walked through fire and came out still singing.

We need lovers who won’t flinch when we need authenticity or reflections.

Because that’s how we change the world—not as lone sparks, but as a wildfire of awakened hearts.

We become the collective portal.

We become the bridge.

We become the new world.

And love is the bridge, always.

To the Spirit Baby Mamas & Parents,

If you’ve ever felt chosen by your spirit baby, know this:

They saw the portal in you.

They saw the sacred fire and chose to be born through it.

They don’t want you to dim.

They want you to rise.

Don’t fear your power, love.

Own it.

Claim it.

Let it be the bridge between this world and theirs.

That might be why they chose you.

I know it’s why mine chose me.